I so miss you all, 20th.
Friday, October 16, 2009
Dear Mandy,
I might be lying if I said that I didn't miss the people back home, or that there are times that I actually feel quite alone, and wish that I had my closest friends near me.. A small handful.. Audrey, Prisc, Yvette, KT, Yvonne, Gayne, Jacob and Zhiyuan. 8 pple. Haha..
But then.. I do like my community here. Jim and Nicola, Juliet, Beth and Angie... wonderful people. And of course, who can forget IVCF! They've really helped me settle in, and I've really enjoyed the time I spend with them. But when I realistically sit down and think of it.. they won't be my community. The ministry I serve. They'll be good friends, and hopefully, long friendships, but they won't be the community I will be hanging around.
I know that God has called me back to serve in Singapore... of course.. i may be called somewhere else in the near future.. but for now, this is where I'm called.
But somewhere deep down, I know I'm not strong enough. And I believe I'm getting by purely by the sustenance of God. It would be so easy to just throw in the towel.. but I know God has a plan and a purpose for me.. and that's why I'm here. So while I'm here, I'll just do my best. God will take care of the rest.
I know that Aud and KT know what that might encompass as well, but for the time being, I'm not going to dwelve on that.. =)
I might be lying if I said that I didn't miss the people back home, or that there are times that I actually feel quite alone, and wish that I had my closest friends near me.. A small handful.. Audrey, Prisc, Yvette, KT, Yvonne, Gayne, Jacob and Zhiyuan. 8 pple. Haha..
But then.. I do like my community here. Jim and Nicola, Juliet, Beth and Angie... wonderful people. And of course, who can forget IVCF! They've really helped me settle in, and I've really enjoyed the time I spend with them. But when I realistically sit down and think of it.. they won't be my community. The ministry I serve. They'll be good friends, and hopefully, long friendships, but they won't be the community I will be hanging around.
I know that God has called me back to serve in Singapore... of course.. i may be called somewhere else in the near future.. but for now, this is where I'm called.
But somewhere deep down, I know I'm not strong enough. And I believe I'm getting by purely by the sustenance of God. It would be so easy to just throw in the towel.. but I know God has a plan and a purpose for me.. and that's why I'm here. So while I'm here, I'll just do my best. God will take care of the rest.
I know that Aud and KT know what that might encompass as well, but for the time being, I'm not going to dwelve on that.. =)
Monday, October 05, 2009
Dear Mandy,
Over the IVCF weekend, I felt prompted by God to share an analogy that I encountered about a year or two ago, and that it was rather apt.
The question: which is stronger? The tree or grass?
Different people would have varied answers... When I posed this question to my group of wonderful amazing people, they each had their different answers. So imagine how surprised I was when there were members who quantified both and said both are equally strong.
Most of the people might say that trees are stronger. They're majestic, they're hard and sturdy. They reach up to the heavens, they get so much more light, and they are generally more useful than grass. I mean, let's face it. What can grass really do right?
Imagine one fine day, a hurricane, or a typhoon comes. Which would be the first to topple?
Well, needless to say, it'd be the tree. Amazing, isn't it? A majestic, strong tree, first to topple in a disaster. Surprisingly, it's the grass that would remain sturdy, more or less rooted in its place.
Why this story? Because it reflects about how God created us. Sometimes we think we're so high and mighty, it takes one disaster to bring us down. Other times, we feel so small and weak, but yet, we make it through a disaster the most intact. Conversely.. we are all made differently. Some of us are outspoken, more extroverted, but we have our moments of weakness. Similarly, some of us are really quite broken, we've been through so much, or we keep to ourselves, introverted, but in times of a crisis, we rise above and beyond ourselves to make things happen.
All these are because of the grace of God, and it's amazing to also see how God created each of us so much more differently than what we would even so much as expect of ourselves. If we think that we are so good that we subconsciously equate our capabilities to that of God's, God can bring across a situation to humble us at the foot of the cross once again. And if we feel that we are inadequate, then God will bring across a situation to make us rise up above ourselves and to realise that we are all capable with God.
But, all of us harmonise and live together as one community. The extroverted and introverted help each other out and live harmoniously together.. just like how the trees and grass live together. The leaves of the trees drop to the ground to become nutrients for the grass (who would take up majority of it), while the grass retains the soil, so that erosion does not occur.
God meant for us to live as a community, yet He made us so diverse and unique. So tell me... how great is our God? =)
Over the IVCF weekend, I felt prompted by God to share an analogy that I encountered about a year or two ago, and that it was rather apt.
The question: which is stronger? The tree or grass?
Different people would have varied answers... When I posed this question to my group of wonderful amazing people, they each had their different answers. So imagine how surprised I was when there were members who quantified both and said both are equally strong.
Most of the people might say that trees are stronger. They're majestic, they're hard and sturdy. They reach up to the heavens, they get so much more light, and they are generally more useful than grass. I mean, let's face it. What can grass really do right?
Imagine one fine day, a hurricane, or a typhoon comes. Which would be the first to topple?
Well, needless to say, it'd be the tree. Amazing, isn't it? A majestic, strong tree, first to topple in a disaster. Surprisingly, it's the grass that would remain sturdy, more or less rooted in its place.
Why this story? Because it reflects about how God created us. Sometimes we think we're so high and mighty, it takes one disaster to bring us down. Other times, we feel so small and weak, but yet, we make it through a disaster the most intact. Conversely.. we are all made differently. Some of us are outspoken, more extroverted, but we have our moments of weakness. Similarly, some of us are really quite broken, we've been through so much, or we keep to ourselves, introverted, but in times of a crisis, we rise above and beyond ourselves to make things happen.
All these are because of the grace of God, and it's amazing to also see how God created each of us so much more differently than what we would even so much as expect of ourselves. If we think that we are so good that we subconsciously equate our capabilities to that of God's, God can bring across a situation to humble us at the foot of the cross once again. And if we feel that we are inadequate, then God will bring across a situation to make us rise up above ourselves and to realise that we are all capable with God.
But, all of us harmonise and live together as one community. The extroverted and introverted help each other out and live harmoniously together.. just like how the trees and grass live together. The leaves of the trees drop to the ground to become nutrients for the grass (who would take up majority of it), while the grass retains the soil, so that erosion does not occur.
God meant for us to live as a community, yet He made us so diverse and unique. So tell me... how great is our God? =)
Thursday, October 01, 2009
Dear Mandy...
At the back of my mind in all that I do, are the pending assignments, essays, presentations and readings that I feel I must do and get done soon.
Then I realise that there's sometimes not much point being so hardworking...
But I want to give in my best for God.
But God asks "Are you running on your strength or are you drawing strength from Me?"
So I prayed. =)
At the back of my mind in all that I do, are the pending assignments, essays, presentations and readings that I feel I must do and get done soon.
Then I realise that there's sometimes not much point being so hardworking...
But I want to give in my best for God.
But God asks "Are you running on your strength or are you drawing strength from Me?"
So I prayed. =)
Monday, September 28, 2009
Dear Mandy...
The view of sunrise from my lodging
Well, as the time in Victoria goes on, it becomes increasingly busy, as the workload increases, and the assignments get more colourful. But through it all, I'm rather amazed by God's wonderful grace. I took the model that PS Khong recommended in his sermon on the 13th Sept, and it's been difficult initially? But as I kept at it, I started to be more and more honest with God, and heard even more clearly what God wants to tell me. It's like when there's a need to reply the Lord, I am more sensitive to what He would want to say. And ever since.. it's been a romance journey with the Lord. =) Great! =)
Then of course, the school work. I found it an irony when I got 36/50 for a test, but it's a B- grade here. Haha... yes, there's no bell curve here, everything is what you've got is what you get. Hmm.. It's got its pros and cons I guess, but to get an A, I've gotta score 85/100. =S hahaha... even a 72 is a B-... so I'd need like... 75 for a B and 80 for a B+. Haven't done such systematic grading for some time, so it's a rather refreshing experience actually, if you ask me. =) Having to work doubly hard all over again.. haha... I wonder if what happened at A levels would actually resurface sometimes.
But then the Lord affirms me by saying that He will provide for me. So I shall trust and walk by faith. And I never ever thought, that on a sunday morning, I can sit in the sunshine, and be typing this blog entry to you. I'm rather amazed... this is a lifestyle that I could definitely get used to. My landlords, Jim and Nicola are really friendly and amazing people. I really like them. =) I can talk freely with them about anything and everything, and they're just such a homely and friendly couple... I'm really thanking and praising God for such an arrangement.
I went whale watching yesterday, and I really marvel at God's creations. Humpback whales, killer whales, poposies and seals were all spotted yesterday as we were in the Zodiac boat. And it was awesome! Really great. I marvelled so much at the Lord's creation, because it's something that I'm pretty certain I won't get to see all that often. But as I was on the boat, and we moved out into the sea, Juliet told me "wah.. the ocean is so big.." and a song came to mind... Lee Ann Womack's "I hope you dance".. and with that song, the semantic correlation would be to Prisc. Haha.. so I took a picture of the ocean, and then wrote "I hope you still feel small when you stand beside the ocean" as its caption, and then posted it on facebook. Haha.. but upon further thought, I kinda realised that indeed... God may have made us the ruler over His creations? But His majesty is shown when we see an ocean so vast, to only know that we're just like a little ant, in a world so big.
"How great Thou art!" And as well as "Oh Lord, how majestic is Your name" came to mind. But in all honesty, as the boat headed back to Victoria, and we saw the mainshore, I told Juliet "it's kind of welcome back to reality", as we knew that what awaited us were assignments, deadlines and more readings and catching up to do. It was kind of a demoralising factor.
This morning, I watched FCBC's sermon for 20th Sep by PS Ashley Evans, and he reminded us that "praise comes first". It was quite a sequential sermon, but the part where he says that praise will get rid of depression spoke to me. I may be in a difficult situation, but I will praise the Lrod, because this is the day that the Lord has made, and I will rejoice and be glad in it (Psalms 119). So I'll remember to praise God in all circumstances. =)
I miss everyone back home! Pearlyn Ong called me stoopid.. haha.. Jas!! Help me get some revenge on Pearl!! =P Hahha.. but that aside, BKC is dearly missed. =) Jasmine, Pearlyn, Rashidah and Isaac.. haha... it's been quite weird not having them in my classes... but I'm going to be optimistic because I know that I'll be linking and meeting them pretty soon before long, and I want to believe that our friendship is going to be one that goes beyond NUS. In fact, I think it's definitely possible, given how wonderful and reciprocative these people are. =) Missing you peeps!!
DEBORAH HENDRICKS!!! How to do your survey when you don't send me the file!!??? And u know that there's always something called email, so the word docu can get to me in any way? =P But I'm really excited seeing how you've grown in the Lord! Haha.. continue to shine and walk close to Him. =) I know great things are destined by God for you. =)
And of course. I miss the tribe. Rawr!! Hahah.. and a lot of new things are happening at home as well... haha.. what they are? I shan't say... but the new addition of an animal to the household does make things rather.. interesting. Hahahah... but overall, I am enjoying my time here, and I should take time off to enjoy and take in the sights and sounds of Victoria. Despite the overwhelming workload, I am resolved to take my own moments. =P
Alright.. with every darkest night, take heart, for the dawn will soon come. God will see me through. =)
The view of sunrise from my lodgingWell, as the time in Victoria goes on, it becomes increasingly busy, as the workload increases, and the assignments get more colourful. But through it all, I'm rather amazed by God's wonderful grace. I took the model that PS Khong recommended in his sermon on the 13th Sept, and it's been difficult initially? But as I kept at it, I started to be more and more honest with God, and heard even more clearly what God wants to tell me. It's like when there's a need to reply the Lord, I am more sensitive to what He would want to say. And ever since.. it's been a romance journey with the Lord. =) Great! =)
Then of course, the school work. I found it an irony when I got 36/50 for a test, but it's a B- grade here. Haha... yes, there's no bell curve here, everything is what you've got is what you get. Hmm.. It's got its pros and cons I guess, but to get an A, I've gotta score 85/100. =S hahaha... even a 72 is a B-... so I'd need like... 75 for a B and 80 for a B+. Haven't done such systematic grading for some time, so it's a rather refreshing experience actually, if you ask me. =) Having to work doubly hard all over again.. haha... I wonder if what happened at A levels would actually resurface sometimes.
But then the Lord affirms me by saying that He will provide for me. So I shall trust and walk by faith. And I never ever thought, that on a sunday morning, I can sit in the sunshine, and be typing this blog entry to you. I'm rather amazed... this is a lifestyle that I could definitely get used to. My landlords, Jim and Nicola are really friendly and amazing people. I really like them. =) I can talk freely with them about anything and everything, and they're just such a homely and friendly couple... I'm really thanking and praising God for such an arrangement.
I went whale watching yesterday, and I really marvel at God's creations. Humpback whales, killer whales, poposies and seals were all spotted yesterday as we were in the Zodiac boat. And it was awesome! Really great. I marvelled so much at the Lord's creation, because it's something that I'm pretty certain I won't get to see all that often. But as I was on the boat, and we moved out into the sea, Juliet told me "wah.. the ocean is so big.." and a song came to mind... Lee Ann Womack's "I hope you dance".. and with that song, the semantic correlation would be to Prisc. Haha.. so I took a picture of the ocean, and then wrote "I hope you still feel small when you stand beside the ocean" as its caption, and then posted it on facebook. Haha.. but upon further thought, I kinda realised that indeed... God may have made us the ruler over His creations? But His majesty is shown when we see an ocean so vast, to only know that we're just like a little ant, in a world so big.
"How great Thou art!" And as well as "Oh Lord, how majestic is Your name" came to mind. But in all honesty, as the boat headed back to Victoria, and we saw the mainshore, I told Juliet "it's kind of welcome back to reality", as we knew that what awaited us were assignments, deadlines and more readings and catching up to do. It was kind of a demoralising factor.
This morning, I watched FCBC's sermon for 20th Sep by PS Ashley Evans, and he reminded us that "praise comes first". It was quite a sequential sermon, but the part where he says that praise will get rid of depression spoke to me. I may be in a difficult situation, but I will praise the Lrod, because this is the day that the Lord has made, and I will rejoice and be glad in it (Psalms 119). So I'll remember to praise God in all circumstances. =)
I miss everyone back home! Pearlyn Ong called me stoopid.. haha.. Jas!! Help me get some revenge on Pearl!! =P Hahha.. but that aside, BKC is dearly missed. =) Jasmine, Pearlyn, Rashidah and Isaac.. haha... it's been quite weird not having them in my classes... but I'm going to be optimistic because I know that I'll be linking and meeting them pretty soon before long, and I want to believe that our friendship is going to be one that goes beyond NUS. In fact, I think it's definitely possible, given how wonderful and reciprocative these people are. =) Missing you peeps!!
DEBORAH HENDRICKS!!! How to do your survey when you don't send me the file!!??? And u know that there's always something called email, so the word docu can get to me in any way? =P But I'm really excited seeing how you've grown in the Lord! Haha.. continue to shine and walk close to Him. =) I know great things are destined by God for you. =)
And of course. I miss the tribe. Rawr!! Hahah.. and a lot of new things are happening at home as well... haha.. what they are? I shan't say... but the new addition of an animal to the household does make things rather.. interesting. Hahahah... but overall, I am enjoying my time here, and I should take time off to enjoy and take in the sights and sounds of Victoria. Despite the overwhelming workload, I am resolved to take my own moments. =P
Alright.. with every darkest night, take heart, for the dawn will soon come. God will see me through. =)
Friday, September 18, 2009
Dear Mandy...
I've already spent close to 2 weeks here in Victoria, Canada, and well, the mixed feelings are finally starting to settle in. =)
Don't get me wrong, I love the place. Victoria is a beautiful beautiful place, and the air is so fresh here, and the university has all these cute little bunnies that keep jumping and frolicking around.. the university itself is a tranquil state of being, rather than a stressed up series of events that make for a potential stressful situation than anything else. Perhaps I'm just being biased because of the fact that Singapore is a place where to stay in the game, we've gotta be ahead of the normal world average by at least a couple of steps, but this break is something... really something.
Of course, that doesn't mean I don't miss the people back home, as well as certain things like the food, and the other what nots like church, like cell, like studying in VJC. I especially miss Audrey (my chipmunk and awfully close junior and friend), Kaiting and Yvonne (I think they call themselves my guardian angels.. haha..), Vette and Prisc (my two closest church friends), Zhiyuan, Jacob and Joel Teng (my closest male friends, and my mentor), and how can I forget my beloved 20th SC, and the quiet, comforting people like Gayne and Deborah? Haha.. there's a whole list if I were to list them out, definitely.. and it wouldn't be countable with both hands and feet.
I realised how much the quote I placed on facebook "the beauty of the moment seemingly lessened without the ones you love" impacted me last week when I saw yesterday my new lodging and the running route, and then realising that there's really no one here in Canada that I'd really want to share my emotions with. Then thank God, Vette was online? And I just shared with Vette.. and the two of us had a moment of sharing. =) My silly emo-buddy is adorably silly. Haha.. =P
One cannot help but marvel at God's creation of wonderful nature, but I also feel that my season here, God is teaching and moulding me a lot. I'm having to confront much discomfort here in Victoria and UVic... and it's somewhat starting all over again to a certain extent, but by the grace of God, everything has been going smoothly, and has worked out in one way or another. I'm really thankful, and just when I thought that I wouldn't have a chance to practice guitar.. lo and behold, there's a guitar in my new lodging that I can use. Haha.. I'll worship God in quiet and in truth. =P
To everyone who comes by this almost inactive blog.. thanks for being such avid readers! Haha.. God bless each and every one of you. =)
I've already spent close to 2 weeks here in Victoria, Canada, and well, the mixed feelings are finally starting to settle in. =)
Don't get me wrong, I love the place. Victoria is a beautiful beautiful place, and the air is so fresh here, and the university has all these cute little bunnies that keep jumping and frolicking around.. the university itself is a tranquil state of being, rather than a stressed up series of events that make for a potential stressful situation than anything else. Perhaps I'm just being biased because of the fact that Singapore is a place where to stay in the game, we've gotta be ahead of the normal world average by at least a couple of steps, but this break is something... really something.
Of course, that doesn't mean I don't miss the people back home, as well as certain things like the food, and the other what nots like church, like cell, like studying in VJC. I especially miss Audrey (my chipmunk and awfully close junior and friend), Kaiting and Yvonne (I think they call themselves my guardian angels.. haha..), Vette and Prisc (my two closest church friends), Zhiyuan, Jacob and Joel Teng (my closest male friends, and my mentor), and how can I forget my beloved 20th SC, and the quiet, comforting people like Gayne and Deborah? Haha.. there's a whole list if I were to list them out, definitely.. and it wouldn't be countable with both hands and feet.
I realised how much the quote I placed on facebook "the beauty of the moment seemingly lessened without the ones you love" impacted me last week when I saw yesterday my new lodging and the running route, and then realising that there's really no one here in Canada that I'd really want to share my emotions with. Then thank God, Vette was online? And I just shared with Vette.. and the two of us had a moment of sharing. =) My silly emo-buddy is adorably silly. Haha.. =P
One cannot help but marvel at God's creation of wonderful nature, but I also feel that my season here, God is teaching and moulding me a lot. I'm having to confront much discomfort here in Victoria and UVic... and it's somewhat starting all over again to a certain extent, but by the grace of God, everything has been going smoothly, and has worked out in one way or another. I'm really thankful, and just when I thought that I wouldn't have a chance to practice guitar.. lo and behold, there's a guitar in my new lodging that I can use. Haha.. I'll worship God in quiet and in truth. =P
To everyone who comes by this almost inactive blog.. thanks for being such avid readers! Haha.. God bless each and every one of you. =)
Tuesday, August 25, 2009
Dear Mandy...
As the date draws nearer for me to leave for Canada, the strength of the bittersweet feelings just seem to get increasingly stronger and stronger. I'm keen to go, actually, but at the same time, I'm apprehensive about flying.
It's not so much so that it's a new environment, a new place.. cause heck! I think I've been exposed to too many new experiences and working and being by myself for the longest time that for some funny reason, I've managed to adapt, and accommodate quickly.. sure there are times when I'll miss home, esp when I was in the army, but I grew to assimilate and even enjoy the fact that I'm able to live and survive in the army without much problem after the first month or so... well, ok, adjustment period of one month for each new environment/camp I was posted to, with the exception of ever so wonderful OCS. That kinda took me much longer. =)
Perhaps the one thing that has the biggest gravitational pull for me to stay are my friends... wonderful people, especially those who're close to me. Of late? I've kinda realised that my close friend pool has changed yet again... haha... funny... it used to be Abby for the longest period of time.. since I think Pri 6 till Sec 4 that Abby and I were really close.. writing letters to slot into each other's mailboxes... meeting at our void decks every birthday... =) Then now... well, there're still the same pple that I'll run to if I need a shoulder or a listening ear... Jacob, Zhiyuan, Kristy Koh... and then there's the church people like Joel, Yvette, Felicia, Prisc... and of course, Cindy and Audrey. They're the people who I know have been there for me.... and who'll prob continue being there for me. =)
Let's also not ever discount God.. He who knows everything. =) He's always there, been there for me... and never changes. Amazing.
Perhaps this exchange is coming at a time when I need to just go away and rediscover myself. =) Actually looking forward, very much in fact to being in Canada.. where I heard the place that I'm going to is rather tranquil, quiet, and beautiful, and I mean beautiful scenery. It's almost a perfect getaway... =)
So why am I apprehensive? I wonder.. haha...
As the date draws nearer for me to leave for Canada, the strength of the bittersweet feelings just seem to get increasingly stronger and stronger. I'm keen to go, actually, but at the same time, I'm apprehensive about flying.
It's not so much so that it's a new environment, a new place.. cause heck! I think I've been exposed to too many new experiences and working and being by myself for the longest time that for some funny reason, I've managed to adapt, and accommodate quickly.. sure there are times when I'll miss home, esp when I was in the army, but I grew to assimilate and even enjoy the fact that I'm able to live and survive in the army without much problem after the first month or so... well, ok, adjustment period of one month for each new environment/camp I was posted to, with the exception of ever so wonderful OCS. That kinda took me much longer. =)
Perhaps the one thing that has the biggest gravitational pull for me to stay are my friends... wonderful people, especially those who're close to me. Of late? I've kinda realised that my close friend pool has changed yet again... haha... funny... it used to be Abby for the longest period of time.. since I think Pri 6 till Sec 4 that Abby and I were really close.. writing letters to slot into each other's mailboxes... meeting at our void decks every birthday... =) Then now... well, there're still the same pple that I'll run to if I need a shoulder or a listening ear... Jacob, Zhiyuan, Kristy Koh... and then there's the church people like Joel, Yvette, Felicia, Prisc... and of course, Cindy and Audrey. They're the people who I know have been there for me.... and who'll prob continue being there for me. =)
Let's also not ever discount God.. He who knows everything. =) He's always there, been there for me... and never changes. Amazing.
Perhaps this exchange is coming at a time when I need to just go away and rediscover myself. =) Actually looking forward, very much in fact to being in Canada.. where I heard the place that I'm going to is rather tranquil, quiet, and beautiful, and I mean beautiful scenery. It's almost a perfect getaway... =)
So why am I apprehensive? I wonder.. haha...
Friday, August 21, 2009
Dear Mandy...
I don't know, but I suddenly wonder about how important I really am. It's a kind of ironic situation where seriously just a little while ago, I was rather confident of where I stand, but suddenly, I don't think I am.
Perhaps I'm being overly sensitive. But then again, maybe I'm not. Perhaps my own insecurities in the past have resulted in an accumulation of insecurity. I don't know myself.
I can't deny that there's a lot in my heart, right now. Do I feel burdened? Yes, to a certain extent, I do. I just really don't know if I should be happy, sad, upset.. I have absolutely no idea. All I know, is that I just... don't know.
Say I don't know? That's probably me. Say I'm unsure.. mm.. I don't know either. I just.. really wish I knew what to do, or to say, or to just...
Somebody please tell me what to do?
I don't know, but I suddenly wonder about how important I really am. It's a kind of ironic situation where seriously just a little while ago, I was rather confident of where I stand, but suddenly, I don't think I am.
Perhaps I'm being overly sensitive. But then again, maybe I'm not. Perhaps my own insecurities in the past have resulted in an accumulation of insecurity. I don't know myself.
I can't deny that there's a lot in my heart, right now. Do I feel burdened? Yes, to a certain extent, I do. I just really don't know if I should be happy, sad, upset.. I have absolutely no idea. All I know, is that I just... don't know.
Say I don't know? That's probably me. Say I'm unsure.. mm.. I don't know either. I just.. really wish I knew what to do, or to say, or to just...
Somebody please tell me what to do?
Thursday, July 30, 2009
Dear Mandy..
Needing to change my own understanding of certain things, including myself. And that's something that has really struck me. How much do I know about myself? And how well do I know about myself. Such questions run through my mind, and even as I sought the Lord in prayer, and with the input from my friends, especially Cindy, I really realise that there's more to me than what I think I know.
How often have random mindless comments from me struck a sensitive chord in people? How often have questions rendered from my own selfish need resulted in the reservation of people? As I think back, countless times, fuelled more so by recent happenings.
So who am I? Do I really have a pure heart, genuine intentions, and unconditional love for the people around me? Am I really happy? Or am I just thinking I'm happy, when in truth, I am not making decisions for myself? I really wonder. And...
Trust is so fragile. So so fragile. I always thought that I'd be able to honour trust, not abuse it, but similarly, I've failed. Not just once, mind you, but several times. And when it hurts those that I really love and care about, it just eats more at me. So much more. And then you're left with the option of wondering what can you do to regain that trust. The answer? There's no easy option. The reality? You may not even get it back though you try.
And then, what's left? Well, I've resolved to try, and to keep to my promise that I'll keep to the boundaries and to earn back the trust. Even if it doesn't work out, and I'm not able to be trusted again. But well, I'm really honest and sincere about it.. I don't know what I can do.. but I'll do what I can...
I hope you'll forgive me, and let me try again.
Needing to change my own understanding of certain things, including myself. And that's something that has really struck me. How much do I know about myself? And how well do I know about myself. Such questions run through my mind, and even as I sought the Lord in prayer, and with the input from my friends, especially Cindy, I really realise that there's more to me than what I think I know.
How often have random mindless comments from me struck a sensitive chord in people? How often have questions rendered from my own selfish need resulted in the reservation of people? As I think back, countless times, fuelled more so by recent happenings.
So who am I? Do I really have a pure heart, genuine intentions, and unconditional love for the people around me? Am I really happy? Or am I just thinking I'm happy, when in truth, I am not making decisions for myself? I really wonder. And...
Trust is so fragile. So so fragile. I always thought that I'd be able to honour trust, not abuse it, but similarly, I've failed. Not just once, mind you, but several times. And when it hurts those that I really love and care about, it just eats more at me. So much more. And then you're left with the option of wondering what can you do to regain that trust. The answer? There's no easy option. The reality? You may not even get it back though you try.
And then, what's left? Well, I've resolved to try, and to keep to my promise that I'll keep to the boundaries and to earn back the trust. Even if it doesn't work out, and I'm not able to be trusted again. But well, I'm really honest and sincere about it.. I don't know what I can do.. but I'll do what I can...
I hope you'll forgive me, and let me try again.
Friday, June 26, 2009
Dear Mandy,
Well... =)
"It is not day" Romeo Montague said to Juliet Capulet after they had spent their first, and sadly, last night together. "It is not day", Romeo proclaimed, though the sun was shining through the windows, and the rooster had cried dawn. "It is not day", Romeo insisted, though the Capulet guards were up and patrolling. "It is not day", Romeo pleaded, though he knew that his name was out on the streets, and he had been cast into exile. "It is not day", Romeo whispered, knowing that he had precious moments left with his wife, perhaps even the last moments.
"It is not day"
4 simple words, but used in a situation where it means so much. Where else could one bequeath such emotions? Where else could one possibly imagine that four simple words could encompass into it denial, love, desire, regret and perhaps, to a certain extent defiance?
"It is not day"
When simple moments are taken away.. when you see before you what you have lost... you want to proclaim "it is not day". You want to take back what was lost, you want to believe that perhaps, it really isn't day. That the sun that shines through the window in your face is really fake. That you really have a few more moments.. that you feel that... life shouldn't be this way.
"It is not day"
But soon enough, you have to realise... what has happened. And as the music gently fades away, pretty soon, all that's left is to pick yourself up, and walk away. Because it's no longer in your hands... it's in God's hands. Because you've done what you can... and whatever happens is now up to God.
"It is not day"
I believe that God can make things better if He wants to. Thus... I believe that "it is not day", because it really isn't the end of what God wants to do. Thus... perhaps we shouldn't say "it is not day", but instead... we should say "it is not time." Not our time, but God's time.
What will you choose to say?
"It is not time, God's time."
Well... =)
"It is not day" Romeo Montague said to Juliet Capulet after they had spent their first, and sadly, last night together. "It is not day", Romeo proclaimed, though the sun was shining through the windows, and the rooster had cried dawn. "It is not day", Romeo insisted, though the Capulet guards were up and patrolling. "It is not day", Romeo pleaded, though he knew that his name was out on the streets, and he had been cast into exile. "It is not day", Romeo whispered, knowing that he had precious moments left with his wife, perhaps even the last moments.
"It is not day"
4 simple words, but used in a situation where it means so much. Where else could one bequeath such emotions? Where else could one possibly imagine that four simple words could encompass into it denial, love, desire, regret and perhaps, to a certain extent defiance?
"It is not day"
When simple moments are taken away.. when you see before you what you have lost... you want to proclaim "it is not day". You want to take back what was lost, you want to believe that perhaps, it really isn't day. That the sun that shines through the window in your face is really fake. That you really have a few more moments.. that you feel that... life shouldn't be this way.
"It is not day"
But soon enough, you have to realise... what has happened. And as the music gently fades away, pretty soon, all that's left is to pick yourself up, and walk away. Because it's no longer in your hands... it's in God's hands. Because you've done what you can... and whatever happens is now up to God.
"It is not day"
I believe that God can make things better if He wants to. Thus... I believe that "it is not day", because it really isn't the end of what God wants to do. Thus... perhaps we shouldn't say "it is not day", but instead... we should say "it is not time." Not our time, but God's time.
What will you choose to say?
"It is not time, God's time."
Saturday, June 13, 2009
Dear Mandy..
It's been a while.. but I think it's been quite an incredulous learning journey. =)
Met up with some of my beloved 20th SC yesterday.. and my goodness, it was so good! Edrei, Joel Lee, Sara, Hui Zhi, Kristy mei... it was a good reminiscing of times past, and perhaps, for some, a new promise of a new beginning. I've began to really cherish these moments a lot, because I realise that as we all gradually move on in life, we become increasingly busier, especially living in the Singapore context. But it's that one meet up, that cause us to step momentarily back to our more carefree days, being much of who we are. But we also realise how each of us have grown, matured, and even changed slightly. But this lovely clique of mine remain at large the same.. joking, merry and still close. I'm glad. =)
It really makes me think of my own Council days... that though JC was one of the toughest periods of my life thus far.. it was also one of the more memorable, if not the most memorable. Perhaps a bittersweet season.. but as I reflect about it, definitely more sweet than bitter. =)
I do love my 20th SC Councillors.. =)
Sunday, April 19, 2009
Dear Mandy...
Just today, I was anchored back to the wonderful grace of how God works in our lives.
A lot of people know that I've been rather emotional of late, and well, that's the funny thing. I knew I had no reason to be emotional, and yet I was. I mean... life was going on smoothly, my friendships were intact and great, and I was still walking with the Lord. But WHY was I still emotional?
It took the whole of today to realise why, and make the move out of the emotional factor.
First in Quiet Time, the Lord showed me through Elijah, how his words testify that He is a man of God. Through this, the Lord affirmed me that what I have been doing and saying has shown that I am a faithful disciple of Christ. So this set hte tone for the day... God's affirmation.
Then, during prayer point worship, PS Bel gave 2 verses.. Hebrews 11:6 and Hebrews 12:1-3...
Just today, I was anchored back to the wonderful grace of how God works in our lives.
A lot of people know that I've been rather emotional of late, and well, that's the funny thing. I knew I had no reason to be emotional, and yet I was. I mean... life was going on smoothly, my friendships were intact and great, and I was still walking with the Lord. But WHY was I still emotional?
It took the whole of today to realise why, and make the move out of the emotional factor.
First in Quiet Time, the Lord showed me through Elijah, how his words testify that He is a man of God. Through this, the Lord affirmed me that what I have been doing and saying has shown that I am a faithful disciple of Christ. So this set hte tone for the day... God's affirmation.
Then, during prayer point worship, PS Bel gave 2 verses.. Hebrews 11:6 and Hebrews 12:1-3...
"Without faith, it is impossible to please God."
- Hebrews 11:6
"Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles, and let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us. Let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfector of our faith, who for the joy set before Him endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God. Consider Him who endured such opposition from sinful men, so that you will not grow weary and lose heart."
-Hebrews 12:1-3
- Hebrews 11:6
"Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles, and let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us. Let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfector of our faith, who for the joy set before Him endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God. Consider Him who endured such opposition from sinful men, so that you will not grow weary and lose heart."
-Hebrews 12:1-3
Well.. these two verses spoke strongly to me.. because I felt that it was a call to God to exercise my faith in Him, and to run with perseverance what He was planned for me, and to turn my eyes upon Jesus, so I will not grow weary and lose heart.
Then came service... where the songs were strong and spoke to me. Fel prayed for me, and it spoke. And the service by Pastor Caleb on overcoming our fears in the Lord, really spoke to me. Especially when Pastor Caleb started asking questions... I guess I let the tears come. I felt God comforting me, and in His presence, i felt safe... then Yuen Shun prayed for me, and so did Jin Hui.
After that... I cried on Jin Hui's shoulders, and it was quite bad I think. Wei Lin was so worried she came over, and I saw the looks on a few people's faces, and they were really shocked. PS Bel and PS Jim came over as well, and then began the biggg talk with PS Jim.
I realised through the talk with PS Jim, that subconsciously, I had lost my way with God in an area that I thought was pretty alright... I guess that in doing so, I had allowed the devil to grip my heart in that area, and turned myself into a bit of a nervous wreck, emotional, when there was really no need to.
My prayer thus became "Lord, grant me wisdom and peace to handle the situations that come my way." Because when we ask for wisdom, the Lord will give it.. and His peace will be our guide. And such, if we have these two, it is difficult for us to lose our way. It is truly by the grace of God that we can be saved, and that we can do right.
So, thank God for revelation and His divine intervention that really gets us walking right with Him. =)
Then came service... where the songs were strong and spoke to me. Fel prayed for me, and it spoke. And the service by Pastor Caleb on overcoming our fears in the Lord, really spoke to me. Especially when Pastor Caleb started asking questions... I guess I let the tears come. I felt God comforting me, and in His presence, i felt safe... then Yuen Shun prayed for me, and so did Jin Hui.
After that... I cried on Jin Hui's shoulders, and it was quite bad I think. Wei Lin was so worried she came over, and I saw the looks on a few people's faces, and they were really shocked. PS Bel and PS Jim came over as well, and then began the biggg talk with PS Jim.
I realised through the talk with PS Jim, that subconsciously, I had lost my way with God in an area that I thought was pretty alright... I guess that in doing so, I had allowed the devil to grip my heart in that area, and turned myself into a bit of a nervous wreck, emotional, when there was really no need to.
My prayer thus became "Lord, grant me wisdom and peace to handle the situations that come my way." Because when we ask for wisdom, the Lord will give it.. and His peace will be our guide. And such, if we have these two, it is difficult for us to lose our way. It is truly by the grace of God that we can be saved, and that we can do right.
So, thank God for revelation and His divine intervention that really gets us walking right with Him. =)
Saturday, April 04, 2009
Dear Mandy..
Well, it has been a very eventful birthday... and one that I really sense that the Lord is preparing me for something big that He has planned for me. Well, let me just recap... hahaha..
In total, SO MANY PEOPLE TAGGED ME ON FACEBOOK AND SMSED OR MSNED ME HAPPY BIRTHDAY THAT I FEEL SO BLESSED! Haha.. sorry for the caps, but it's really true... I realise how simple these actions may be, but how much it really means to the recipient, because of the heart and the effort to simply go over and tag or take up a phone and sms. It's really a wondrous blessing and gift to have and receive. To everyone who did so, my heartfelt thanks and gratitude for the effort that you've put in! =)
I had dinner with my family at “螃蟹之家", and we had black pepper crab... no picture to show cause I forgot to take. But it was nice. Haven't had such a big family dinner for some time, and though it started off late cause Dad got held up at work, and started off awkward, cause I was feeling tired and irritated... but by God's grace, things got better. While waiting for dinner, God led me to read Ephesians 3... Nothing much really got in at that time, but one thing that struck me was Paul asking "are you saved be faith or by law?" This would prepare me for what I was to read later at night.
Well... I've been blessed.. and I maintained my promise of cutting a cake on my birthday, and sis gave me a really expensive gift. Now I know what was in that bag. Hahaha.. But all in all... it went well... =)
Spent the night chatting on msn, and reading 2 more chapters of Max Lucado's "3:16- The numbers of hope", and the chapters were on the words "perish" and "believe". I guess I was led back to remember that God doesn't want us to do anything to attain eternal life.. He just wants us to believe in Him, and that's that. Of course, the next chapter on "perish" talks of how people just close their doors to the Lord when He comes knocking.. so they make it that choice. But one line really stood out for me... Max Lucado wrote "Even longing for God is a gift from God." That really got me thinking... if a longing for God is a gift, then... does that mean that God has condemned the rest who He didn't bless? But no! Max Lucado explains that God knocks on our doors.. in order to receive the fift from God, we must first be willing to accept God into our lives, and only then can we fully receive the grace and love of God.
I guess we all have a long way to go... but it all begins with my God! =) I believe He'll have a plan for me. =)
Well, it has been a very eventful birthday... and one that I really sense that the Lord is preparing me for something big that He has planned for me. Well, let me just recap... hahaha..
In total, SO MANY PEOPLE TAGGED ME ON FACEBOOK AND SMSED OR MSNED ME HAPPY BIRTHDAY THAT I FEEL SO BLESSED! Haha.. sorry for the caps, but it's really true... I realise how simple these actions may be, but how much it really means to the recipient, because of the heart and the effort to simply go over and tag or take up a phone and sms. It's really a wondrous blessing and gift to have and receive. To everyone who did so, my heartfelt thanks and gratitude for the effort that you've put in! =)
I had dinner with my family at “螃蟹之家", and we had black pepper crab... no picture to show cause I forgot to take. But it was nice. Haven't had such a big family dinner for some time, and though it started off late cause Dad got held up at work, and started off awkward, cause I was feeling tired and irritated... but by God's grace, things got better. While waiting for dinner, God led me to read Ephesians 3... Nothing much really got in at that time, but one thing that struck me was Paul asking "are you saved be faith or by law?" This would prepare me for what I was to read later at night.
Well... I've been blessed.. and I maintained my promise of cutting a cake on my birthday, and sis gave me a really expensive gift. Now I know what was in that bag. Hahaha.. But all in all... it went well... =)
Spent the night chatting on msn, and reading 2 more chapters of Max Lucado's "3:16- The numbers of hope", and the chapters were on the words "perish" and "believe". I guess I was led back to remember that God doesn't want us to do anything to attain eternal life.. He just wants us to believe in Him, and that's that. Of course, the next chapter on "perish" talks of how people just close their doors to the Lord when He comes knocking.. so they make it that choice. But one line really stood out for me... Max Lucado wrote "Even longing for God is a gift from God." That really got me thinking... if a longing for God is a gift, then... does that mean that God has condemned the rest who He didn't bless? But no! Max Lucado explains that God knocks on our doors.. in order to receive the fift from God, we must first be willing to accept God into our lives, and only then can we fully receive the grace and love of God.
I guess we all have a long way to go... but it all begins with my God! =) I believe He'll have a plan for me. =)
Thursday, April 02, 2009
Dear Mandy..
Well... as the big 2-3 draws nearer, I've been really blessed! Everyone knows every year I try my best to be nonchalant as my birthday draws near, and if it's quietly celebrated, even better. I still remember last year when I successfully managed to bluff Joel and Isaac my birthday is in May. Haha... it was thwarted, surprisingly, and this year, the person who thwarted it last year, in some sense also thwarted my attempts this year. But this year was different I guess.
I've been praying about my birthday, as instigated by a few close friends, because of the pending exchange that is coming up in August. They all wanted me to have a proper celebration, but the me being the me kinda disagreed. To the words of those so dear "Go and pray and ask God what He says." Which upon duly charged, I couldn't really refute could I? So I went to the Lord in prayer.
And surprisingly, He wanted me to enjoy my birthday. He said, "Do not worry, my child. Don't fret about your birthday. Just trust that I am in control." So I did.
On Wednesday, ShuXin (Xiaoxin) came to NUS to play badminton, and asked if we could meet up for a while, which I was realy happy to do so. I rarely get to see ShuXin anyway, so I was looking forward to it. That silly girl made me walk from Arts Canteen to Engine Canteen, only to receive a birthday present and this big orange balloon which says "Happy Birthday" on one side and "Daniel is a happy boy" on the other side. Talk about having to walk around school with that BIG ORANGE BALLOON?!! And to make it funny.. the "meet up" with XiaoXin only lasted 7 minutes and she was gone. Hahaha... funny incident, but I felt blessed.
Had a project meeting, and completed some parts, and now it's rush rush rush for Soci of Tourism project... then went down to Parkway for cell.
So at cell we were waiting for people, and then suddenly, ice breaker. And the ice breaker was "Ask Daniel 23 questions" cause PS Jim said they wanted to celebrate my birthday. Haha.. I was bashful I guess.. I mean, it was totally unexpected. And the best part... I got a birthday PIZZA!! I mean seriously... a BIRTHDAY PIZZA! And if you're wondering... yes.. I prefer birthday pizzas to cake, unless it's a too die for cake, and it MUST be chocolate! Hahaha... and it was so sweet actually... because it was all thanks to a close friend, and she tipped them off when they asked about it. Honestly touched.
Then, they prayed for me!! So touched!! U-Jin, PS Bel, PS Jim and Wei Lin took turns to pray for me, and I feel so blessed... Hahaha.. my birthday isn't here yet, and already I feel so blessed.
Thanks everyone, for having made it a wonderful blessing... Thank you to Joel, Isaac, to the 24, to Shuxin.. and to Prisc! =) Haha.. God's blessings all to me! =)
Well... as the big 2-3 draws nearer, I've been really blessed! Everyone knows every year I try my best to be nonchalant as my birthday draws near, and if it's quietly celebrated, even better. I still remember last year when I successfully managed to bluff Joel and Isaac my birthday is in May. Haha... it was thwarted, surprisingly, and this year, the person who thwarted it last year, in some sense also thwarted my attempts this year. But this year was different I guess.
I've been praying about my birthday, as instigated by a few close friends, because of the pending exchange that is coming up in August. They all wanted me to have a proper celebration, but the me being the me kinda disagreed. To the words of those so dear "Go and pray and ask God what He says." Which upon duly charged, I couldn't really refute could I? So I went to the Lord in prayer.
And surprisingly, He wanted me to enjoy my birthday. He said, "Do not worry, my child. Don't fret about your birthday. Just trust that I am in control." So I did.
On Wednesday, ShuXin (Xiaoxin) came to NUS to play badminton, and asked if we could meet up for a while, which I was realy happy to do so. I rarely get to see ShuXin anyway, so I was looking forward to it. That silly girl made me walk from Arts Canteen to Engine Canteen, only to receive a birthday present and this big orange balloon which says "Happy Birthday" on one side and "Daniel is a happy boy" on the other side. Talk about having to walk around school with that BIG ORANGE BALLOON?!! And to make it funny.. the "meet up" with XiaoXin only lasted 7 minutes and she was gone. Hahaha... funny incident, but I felt blessed.
Had a project meeting, and completed some parts, and now it's rush rush rush for Soci of Tourism project... then went down to Parkway for cell.
So at cell we were waiting for people, and then suddenly, ice breaker. And the ice breaker was "Ask Daniel 23 questions" cause PS Jim said they wanted to celebrate my birthday. Haha.. I was bashful I guess.. I mean, it was totally unexpected. And the best part... I got a birthday PIZZA!! I mean seriously... a BIRTHDAY PIZZA! And if you're wondering... yes.. I prefer birthday pizzas to cake, unless it's a too die for cake, and it MUST be chocolate! Hahaha... and it was so sweet actually... because it was all thanks to a close friend, and she tipped them off when they asked about it. Honestly touched.
Then, they prayed for me!! So touched!! U-Jin, PS Bel, PS Jim and Wei Lin took turns to pray for me, and I feel so blessed... Hahaha.. my birthday isn't here yet, and already I feel so blessed.
Thanks everyone, for having made it a wonderful blessing... Thank you to Joel, Isaac, to the 24, to Shuxin.. and to Prisc! =) Haha.. God's blessings all to me! =)
Monday, March 23, 2009
Dear Mandy...
I changed the song on my blog to one that I really like... Well.. most of the songs on my Imeem I like, or are songs of the moment.. but these worship songs are those that I don't have.. and the lyrics for this song really speak to me. Especially the chorus:
There're a lot of things that the Lord placed upon my heart ever since the G12 conference, and I hope that I have really grown from this experience, and am able to be more able to handle everything that comes my way... spending at least 45 mins in worship everyday, or rather, attempting to do so, really helps remind me that my help comes from God, and the need of not being complacent and forgetting to pray to God in keeping my heart a heart of flesh instead of a stoney one for His glory. Quiet time in the morning has been getting increasingly better.. I think I've got a lot to give thanks for! =)
Speaking of giving thanks.. I've come to realise in this season of "Love Your Neighbour", it's been pretty much about the little things, and the heart that count. Be it promising to keep someone in prayer and doing so, or going out of your way to help people... I believe that in time, these things are what really matter. Sure people will remember the one or two things that you did which is impactful to them, but more often than not, people actually remember the heart of the person more over the actions of the person. =)
More to come, and more to share.. till then, it's 4 project essays and 1 presentation to go... haha.. By the blood of Jesus, I will overcome! =)
I changed the song on my blog to one that I really like... Well.. most of the songs on my Imeem I like, or are songs of the moment.. but these worship songs are those that I don't have.. and the lyrics for this song really speak to me. Especially the chorus:
"And I will run to You
To Your words of truth
Not by might, not by power
But by the Spirit of God
Yes I will run the race
Till I see Your face
Oh let me live in the glory of Your grace"
-"I will run to You" by Hillsongs
And I think that this is really apt. Since the G12 conference till now, I found myself being more and more sensitive to God, hearing Him, and I really love walking close to Him. Everything seems to be more bearable, and though there are times when I slip, or feel down, I find that praying to Him always helps, because I know and sense that He's really around me.To Your words of truth
Not by might, not by power
But by the Spirit of God
Yes I will run the race
Till I see Your face
Oh let me live in the glory of Your grace"
-"I will run to You" by Hillsongs
There're a lot of things that the Lord placed upon my heart ever since the G12 conference, and I hope that I have really grown from this experience, and am able to be more able to handle everything that comes my way... spending at least 45 mins in worship everyday, or rather, attempting to do so, really helps remind me that my help comes from God, and the need of not being complacent and forgetting to pray to God in keeping my heart a heart of flesh instead of a stoney one for His glory. Quiet time in the morning has been getting increasingly better.. I think I've got a lot to give thanks for! =)
Speaking of giving thanks.. I've come to realise in this season of "Love Your Neighbour", it's been pretty much about the little things, and the heart that count. Be it promising to keep someone in prayer and doing so, or going out of your way to help people... I believe that in time, these things are what really matter. Sure people will remember the one or two things that you did which is impactful to them, but more often than not, people actually remember the heart of the person more over the actions of the person. =)
More to come, and more to share.. till then, it's 4 project essays and 1 presentation to go... haha.. By the blood of Jesus, I will overcome! =)
Friday, March 13, 2009
Dear Mandy...
There are times when I wonder if thinking too much is detrimental to health.
My closest friends know that I tend to think too much.. that's why one of my salient points is to draw abstract links from things that seem too different to have similarities.. but I somehow manage to do so. Of course, the down side of thinking too much is that you start to dwelve into domains of that thread of thought that you shouldn't really think about; tackling issues that are not supposed to be tackled then, and then, getting yourself all emotional or worried about things that are not yet to come.
However, as with all skills, it can be properly harnessed, and I believe that with maturity and coming of age, you end up being able to use this particular skill better. I'm starting to see that indeed, I'm not as strong as I think I am, because there're always higher levels and there'll be new challenges that come along when you think you're ready. Your past experiences only prepare you to know that your adaptability is less tedious, but you still have that bit of adjusting to do.
As Pila says... God is with me.. He is Emmanuel. And as surely as He made the stars in the sky, I will trust in Him, because He has a plan to prosper me. =)
There are times when I wonder if thinking too much is detrimental to health.
My closest friends know that I tend to think too much.. that's why one of my salient points is to draw abstract links from things that seem too different to have similarities.. but I somehow manage to do so. Of course, the down side of thinking too much is that you start to dwelve into domains of that thread of thought that you shouldn't really think about; tackling issues that are not supposed to be tackled then, and then, getting yourself all emotional or worried about things that are not yet to come.
However, as with all skills, it can be properly harnessed, and I believe that with maturity and coming of age, you end up being able to use this particular skill better. I'm starting to see that indeed, I'm not as strong as I think I am, because there're always higher levels and there'll be new challenges that come along when you think you're ready. Your past experiences only prepare you to know that your adaptability is less tedious, but you still have that bit of adjusting to do.
As Pila says... God is with me.. He is Emmanuel. And as surely as He made the stars in the sky, I will trust in Him, because He has a plan to prosper me. =)
Sunday, February 22, 2009
Dear Mandy...
"Will Hayes, a 30-something Manhattan dad in the midst of a divorce when his 10-year-old daughter, Maya (Abigail Breslin), starts to question him about his life before marriage. Maya wants to know absolutely everything about how her parents met and fell in love. Will,s story begins in 1992, as a young, starry-eyed aspiring politician who moves to New York from Wisconsin in order to work on the presidential campaign. For Maya, Will relives his past as an idealistic young man learning the ins and outs of big city politics, and recounts the history of his romantic relationships with three very different women. Will hopelessly attempts a gentler version of his story for his daughter and changes the names so Maya has to guess who is the woman her father finally married. Is her mother Will,s college sweetheart, the dependable girl next door Emily (Elizabeth Banks)? Is she his longtime best friend and confidante, the apolitical April (Isla Fisher)? Or is she the free-spirited but ambitious journalist Summer (Rachel Weisz)? As Maya puts together the pieces of her dad,s romantic puzzle, she begins to understand that love is not so simple or easy. And as Will tells her his tale, Maya helps him to understand that it,s definitely never too late to go back...and maybe even possible to find a happy ending."
The synopsis above tells about what the movie is about. What it doesn't tell you is the wonderful wonderful story that it endeavours to tell over a bedtime story. It touches your heart, enlightens you about love in relationships... and more importantly.. that there's always hope that you'll find that ideal person someday.
The story of finding out of the 3 people in Will's life that he has ever loved, one of them happens to be his daughter, Maya's mother. The story is intrinsically woven, so much so that you think it's going to be another of those predictable love stories... you know? But the way the director throws a curveball at you is very smooth and unexpected. The three women in his life are as follows:
The three women in Will's life.. (From L to R): April who's the best friend, Emily the girl next door and Summer the free-spirited one.
Along the story, each of these women create a niche for themselves, portraying themselves in a different identity of modern women. Those who take life with a pinch of salt like April, those that are more conservative and careful like Emily, or those who are the go-getters and take life as it comes like Summer. Which of these is Maya's mom... and the underlying question of it all is... who of these three does Will truly love?
I'm not going to spoil the ending for you, but I have to admit that this movie kind of challenged certain perspectives that I had, especially with regards to stereotypes. In one simple movie.. you see unconditional love, you see unrequited love, you see love that transcends, you see love that understands. Of course, you also see the other side of love.. the selfish love, the deluded love and the love that doesn't let go when it is time.
Even as I'm typing this, I find myself wondering exactly what love is it that is prevalent in society these days... and how wonderful it is that despite the seemingly loss of importance of the sanctity of true love, it is still there in the obscurity of a seemingly feeling-less Earth. Because there's always hope. In that hope... there lies the promise, though it may be thin, of eternal bliss in a marriage or a relationship. It's definitely possible.
The linguistic puns in this movie are great. I love how "Definitely Maybe" has different connotation in the movie. How two of the three girls are "Definitely Maybe" candidates for Will. How Will himself is a "Definitely Maybe" kinda guy. Or how commitment to some people is "Definitely Maybe"... there're a lot of different ways to look at the movie and how the title plays around it, but it's definitely worth an analysis. =)
In short... love is definitely something... I wonder if it'll ever happen to me. =)
"Will Hayes, a 30-something Manhattan dad in the midst of a divorce when his 10-year-old daughter, Maya (Abigail Breslin), starts to question him about his life before marriage. Maya wants to know absolutely everything about how her parents met and fell in love. Will,s story begins in 1992, as a young, starry-eyed aspiring politician who moves to New York from Wisconsin in order to work on the presidential campaign. For Maya, Will relives his past as an idealistic young man learning the ins and outs of big city politics, and recounts the history of his romantic relationships with three very different women. Will hopelessly attempts a gentler version of his story for his daughter and changes the names so Maya has to guess who is the woman her father finally married. Is her mother Will,s college sweetheart, the dependable girl next door Emily (Elizabeth Banks)? Is she his longtime best friend and confidante, the apolitical April (Isla Fisher)? Or is she the free-spirited but ambitious journalist Summer (Rachel Weisz)? As Maya puts together the pieces of her dad,s romantic puzzle, she begins to understand that love is not so simple or easy. And as Will tells her his tale, Maya helps him to understand that it,s definitely never too late to go back...and maybe even possible to find a happy ending."The synopsis above tells about what the movie is about. What it doesn't tell you is the wonderful wonderful story that it endeavours to tell over a bedtime story. It touches your heart, enlightens you about love in relationships... and more importantly.. that there's always hope that you'll find that ideal person someday.
The story of finding out of the 3 people in Will's life that he has ever loved, one of them happens to be his daughter, Maya's mother. The story is intrinsically woven, so much so that you think it's going to be another of those predictable love stories... you know? But the way the director throws a curveball at you is very smooth and unexpected. The three women in his life are as follows:
The three women in Will's life.. (From L to R): April who's the best friend, Emily the girl next door and Summer the free-spirited one.Along the story, each of these women create a niche for themselves, portraying themselves in a different identity of modern women. Those who take life with a pinch of salt like April, those that are more conservative and careful like Emily, or those who are the go-getters and take life as it comes like Summer. Which of these is Maya's mom... and the underlying question of it all is... who of these three does Will truly love?
I'm not going to spoil the ending for you, but I have to admit that this movie kind of challenged certain perspectives that I had, especially with regards to stereotypes. In one simple movie.. you see unconditional love, you see unrequited love, you see love that transcends, you see love that understands. Of course, you also see the other side of love.. the selfish love, the deluded love and the love that doesn't let go when it is time.
Even as I'm typing this, I find myself wondering exactly what love is it that is prevalent in society these days... and how wonderful it is that despite the seemingly loss of importance of the sanctity of true love, it is still there in the obscurity of a seemingly feeling-less Earth. Because there's always hope. In that hope... there lies the promise, though it may be thin, of eternal bliss in a marriage or a relationship. It's definitely possible.
The linguistic puns in this movie are great. I love how "Definitely Maybe" has different connotation in the movie. How two of the three girls are "Definitely Maybe" candidates for Will. How Will himself is a "Definitely Maybe" kinda guy. Or how commitment to some people is "Definitely Maybe"... there're a lot of different ways to look at the movie and how the title plays around it, but it's definitely worth an analysis. =)
In short... love is definitely something... I wonder if it'll ever happen to me. =)
Wednesday, February 18, 2009
Dear Mandy...
Today, I gave blood. Hahaha... it was a rather long wait, and a rather hilarious situation.
The wait, though long, was made more bearable with Rashidah and her friend Amy. We just chatted the long wait away.. then it was giving blood time. The HSA staff that attended to us were really nice and helpful.. but after seeing people feeling faint and all that, I kinda felt scared. So what did I do?
I prayed.
I asked God to watch over me. To let my blood be useful, that it can be used to save lives. And that I'd be able to not grow faint, but to be strong because my God is within me.
And the Lord answers prayers.
The nurses were nice, accommodating and helpful.
The blood donation went well with minimal pain.
And I started singing worship songs. In came "Still". In came "Thank You for the Cross". And surprisingly, my blood transfusion slowed down towards the end... It was getting slower and slower, and where other people were done, and even my friend who felt faint was able to walk.. I was still sitting there with a needle in my arm! Haha.. I didn't think too much about it then. So, they kinda cut short my transfusion with a little bit to go. And then I was sitting there with a yellow bandage on my arm where the needle was... with bumblebees! Went to the reception counter, immediately brough laughter to the volunteers there, helped distribute biscuits, and made friends with this Vietnamese girl I think called Summer.
So as I left and came home, I slept for close to 3 hours cause it is rather draining. And well, I managed to complete my revision for Stats by doing 3 tutorials! Normally I do one tutorial in the time that I took to complete 3... the Lord is awesome!
And when I think about the transfusion. I realise that "Hey! The Lord could have reduced my blood flow so that I wouldn't get dizzy!"
God is great. =)
Today, I gave blood. Hahaha... it was a rather long wait, and a rather hilarious situation.
The wait, though long, was made more bearable with Rashidah and her friend Amy. We just chatted the long wait away.. then it was giving blood time. The HSA staff that attended to us were really nice and helpful.. but after seeing people feeling faint and all that, I kinda felt scared. So what did I do?
I prayed.
I asked God to watch over me. To let my blood be useful, that it can be used to save lives. And that I'd be able to not grow faint, but to be strong because my God is within me.
And the Lord answers prayers.
The nurses were nice, accommodating and helpful.
The blood donation went well with minimal pain.
And I started singing worship songs. In came "Still". In came "Thank You for the Cross". And surprisingly, my blood transfusion slowed down towards the end... It was getting slower and slower, and where other people were done, and even my friend who felt faint was able to walk.. I was still sitting there with a needle in my arm! Haha.. I didn't think too much about it then. So, they kinda cut short my transfusion with a little bit to go. And then I was sitting there with a yellow bandage on my arm where the needle was... with bumblebees! Went to the reception counter, immediately brough laughter to the volunteers there, helped distribute biscuits, and made friends with this Vietnamese girl I think called Summer.
So as I left and came home, I slept for close to 3 hours cause it is rather draining. And well, I managed to complete my revision for Stats by doing 3 tutorials! Normally I do one tutorial in the time that I took to complete 3... the Lord is awesome!
And when I think about the transfusion. I realise that "Hey! The Lord could have reduced my blood flow so that I wouldn't get dizzy!"
God is great. =)
Sunday, January 25, 2009
Dear Mandy...
I feel rather emotional and random at the moment... and I wonder why! It's supposed to be the Chinese New Year break... but somewhere at the back of my mind lies the fact that I have a presentation and a class test on the Wednesday immediately after the break. Somewhere in my heart lies the many concerns that I worry about. And somewhere in my soul is a longing for a deeper thirst for my Lord. Ok, so the last concern isn't that bad.. =) I mean... I do enjoy worshipping God, I do enjoy reading His word. But of late, I do feel rather happier when I'm by myself... which ideally means God and I. After all, I'm never really alone.
But as I try to analyse my feelings that have been extremely sensitive lately, I realise that it's really a lot of confusion, and heartfelt matters that I've kinda been "shelving" to put it mildly. And as I review them, some of them I have recovered from without knowing it, thanks to time, friends and God's wondrous works. Others.. I'm still KIV. Questions like... my identity? Or... where do I go from here? Or... my future? Things like that... I'm still wondering.
A picture I took long ago.. I was thinking then...
Of course, I realise I don't really have answers.. but of late, a lot of the things that I've been reading out of Kim Meeder's "Bridge Called Hope" has been speaking to me. So much so that I even have thought about using some of her stories to teach in the form of a word... that's how much it speaks to me. I was reading on friendship today, and here's a paragraph that's amazing...
I feel rather emotional and random at the moment... and I wonder why! It's supposed to be the Chinese New Year break... but somewhere at the back of my mind lies the fact that I have a presentation and a class test on the Wednesday immediately after the break. Somewhere in my heart lies the many concerns that I worry about. And somewhere in my soul is a longing for a deeper thirst for my Lord. Ok, so the last concern isn't that bad.. =) I mean... I do enjoy worshipping God, I do enjoy reading His word. But of late, I do feel rather happier when I'm by myself... which ideally means God and I. After all, I'm never really alone.
But as I try to analyse my feelings that have been extremely sensitive lately, I realise that it's really a lot of confusion, and heartfelt matters that I've kinda been "shelving" to put it mildly. And as I review them, some of them I have recovered from without knowing it, thanks to time, friends and God's wondrous works. Others.. I'm still KIV. Questions like... my identity? Or... where do I go from here? Or... my future? Things like that... I'm still wondering.
A picture I took long ago.. I was thinking then...Of course, I realise I don't really have answers.. but of late, a lot of the things that I've been reading out of Kim Meeder's "Bridge Called Hope" has been speaking to me. So much so that I even have thought about using some of her stories to teach in the form of a word... that's how much it speaks to me. I was reading on friendship today, and here's a paragraph that's amazing...
"We need friends... all of us.
No person or creature can survive alone. Nor was any person or creature meant to.
Real friendship does more than just make us feel better; truly, it makes us better.
True friendship is strong, purposeful, honest, compassionate, and steadfast.
A real friend gently reveals our weakness, while cheering every step toward our newfound strength.
It holds us up when we are weak."
No person or creature can survive alone. Nor was any person or creature meant to.
Real friendship does more than just make us feel better; truly, it makes us better.
True friendship is strong, purposeful, honest, compassionate, and steadfast.
A real friend gently reveals our weakness, while cheering every step toward our newfound strength.
It holds us up when we are weak."
I do find her definition of friendship very very true, and real. Friends are the people who stand by us despite seeing our ugliest sides. Friends are the people who not only critique you, they walk with you, encourage you, and they see the changes no matter how slight. Above all, they invite you to be a better person without losing the essence of who you are.
It is with regards to such words that make me in awe of the wonder of language. I am happy that I'm a linguist... honestly. They are such interesting analyses, and it's a small world that opens up to those who have studied linguistics before. Of course... perhaps it's also part of the threos of being a student. =) Hahaha.... I'm a bit incoherent. PLease do not analyse this discourse for it probably flouts the coherence factor... =)
Well... that concludes my random rambling today. Hahaha... Happy Chinese New Year everyone. May you be prosperous this year! =)
It is with regards to such words that make me in awe of the wonder of language. I am happy that I'm a linguist... honestly. They are such interesting analyses, and it's a small world that opens up to those who have studied linguistics before. Of course... perhaps it's also part of the threos of being a student. =) Hahaha.... I'm a bit incoherent. PLease do not analyse this discourse for it probably flouts the coherence factor... =)
Well... that concludes my random rambling today. Hahaha... Happy Chinese New Year everyone. May you be prosperous this year! =)
Saturday, January 24, 2009
Dear Mandy...
I haven't really been in the blogging mood of late.. been rather tired, and just lethargic... but so many things have happened, that I guess it's about time I really really update.
This is really something I've been watching lately. THe Balcony Scene of Baz Luhrmann's Romeo and Juliet in 1996. I feel that Claire Danes has really great screen presence! And I love LOVE the discourse that takes place between Juliet and Romeo... It's so lovely.. Juliet's monologue of how she'll accept Romeo for who he is... Romeo's pledge that he'll risk himself for her.. it's lovely... I was captured by Juliet's line:
I like the part whereby Juliet comments about the word. If we were to call a rose by another word.. maybe... "Juliet"... then "Juliet" would be used to represent a rose, and it would be a wonderful name for the entity that it represents... It isn't the name that really really matters... we can call it anything.. but at the end of the day, it is the form that it represents that matters... we can call a rose many things... "rose", "flower of love"... and yet, it is still essentially a rose.
Lectures this semester are really really interesting!! I enjoy my EL mods, and even my Soci of Tourism! Well, Stats is also interesting, but seriously.. my arts mods are so interesting, that I not only stay awake in lessons easily, but I also find myself in deep thought about what has been taught. It's really amazing how God also places Himself in my lectures.
How apt that even in lectures, the sovereign Lord drops in little nuggets of reminders of who He is, and how omnipresent He is. =)
Well, other than that.. a week ago, we had the "Love Our Neighbour" Tribe Service Day, and being honest, it went well. There were a lot of cleaning duties, decoration making sessions and interaction with both the elderly and among ourselves... but I was thankful that the tribe gave a turnout of close to 30 people, and that everyone pitched in. It felt so much like a family again.. I missed that kinda feeling. Glad and many thanks to Adeline who came down, and thanks to Jin Hui, Xiaoyun and Joshua! We make a good team!! =)
My personal takeaways from the cleaning... I realised that if I can muster the courage to speak to elderly who're not close to me (I.E. Complete strangers), then I should be able to spend more time with my own grandmother... Praise be to the Lord... the next Monday, I made time to go down to my Grandmother's house with my mom, when I really wanted to study.. but in doing so, I made an effort to talk to her.. I haven't been there for some time, cause I'm always busy.. but the Lord prompted me to go, and go I did. It was a short time? About 30 mins? BUt it was fruitful and fulfilling all the same.
Trying out a new regime at the moment... run 4 times a week about 3 to 5km each run, and I will do static stations at the end of each run to tone my body for the upcoming IPPT. I wanna maintain my silver, but not to the extent that I get my silver and end up half dead... so I will train.. though it's draining, and can be tiring.. but I will do so. =) Nothing ventured, nothing gained... and well... as what the theme so far has been about.. until we go through fire, we will not be properly moulded. =)
Yesterday, we had a surprise farewell for Xiaoyun at SMU.. Quite a turnout.. XY, Vanessa C., Felicia, Audrey, Alicia, Rachel, Zhen Zhu, Isaac and Wei Liang came down... quite a fun session definitely... we sang, we prayed, we ate, we laughed, we talked... like a family, except when the music ends, so does the curtain be drawn. It ended a bit too soon? But I also know that indeed.. it is a session that was really memorable.
Today I went back to VJC to study.. and reaped unforseen benefits. Not only was i productive for a rekindling of my Saturday studying sessions (1 tutorial and 3 readings), but I managed to talk to Geraldine, WELCO, and the Oreintation Adhoc, specifically Lennart, Subra and Kendrick till about 8pm at night, sharing about Council history, and our Secondary School experiences. It was rather memorable, definitely.
Amazingly, I think because I've been expending too much energy the last few weeks over event after event, I felt surprisingly rested in my studying, and in talking to people. I just... really enjoyed it. I felt God's presence in my studying, and even in the chats... but the run that I did kinda pooped me out... haha.. been runnin 3km, suddenly jump to 4.8km took a bit of a toll... and the static after that... whooo!! Hahaha... high. =)
But then... I forgot that I wanted to do QT with God after my run.. in my exhaustion, i just took my stuff and found a table to study... no wonder I wasn't productive... haha.. God wanted to spend time with me! So I came home, and after dinner, I worshipped the Lord and read 2 chapters off Kim Meeder's "Bridge called Hope". And the Lord spoke to me. He spoke so much to me about certain things I've bene going through, and I just felt so emotional.
One line stood out strongly for me in the book...
How true this quote is. When people give you feedback or rebuke you out of love, you're more receptive to change than when someone comes out straight to pinpoint flaws that you have and make it seem like it's your fault that you're like that. Perhaps because I'm a word person, so the choice of words appeal to me... but I guess we all have our little glitches. I'm changing, I can sense it... but for some reason, I don't feel very comfortable with the change...
I guess I need more time for reflecting...
Thanks Panda and Vette-Vette though.. for standing by me...
Thanks Vonne, for tagging about me. =)
I haven't really been in the blogging mood of late.. been rather tired, and just lethargic... but so many things have happened, that I guess it's about time I really really update.
This is really something I've been watching lately. THe Balcony Scene of Baz Luhrmann's Romeo and Juliet in 1996. I feel that Claire Danes has really great screen presence! And I love LOVE the discourse that takes place between Juliet and Romeo... It's so lovely.. Juliet's monologue of how she'll accept Romeo for who he is... Romeo's pledge that he'll risk himself for her.. it's lovely... I was captured by Juliet's line:
"What's Montague?
It is nor hand, nor foot, nor arm nor face;
nor any other part belonging to a man.
O, be some other name!
What's in a name?
That which we call a rose
by any other word would smell as sweet.
So Romeo would were he not Romeo called
Retain that dear perfection which he holds without that title.
Romeo doff thy name
And for they name which is no part of thee
Take all myself."
It is nor hand, nor foot, nor arm nor face;
nor any other part belonging to a man.
O, be some other name!
What's in a name?
That which we call a rose
by any other word would smell as sweet.
So Romeo would were he not Romeo called
Retain that dear perfection which he holds without that title.
Romeo doff thy name
And for they name which is no part of thee
Take all myself."
I like the part whereby Juliet comments about the word. If we were to call a rose by another word.. maybe... "Juliet"... then "Juliet" would be used to represent a rose, and it would be a wonderful name for the entity that it represents... It isn't the name that really really matters... we can call it anything.. but at the end of the day, it is the form that it represents that matters... we can call a rose many things... "rose", "flower of love"... and yet, it is still essentially a rose.
Lectures this semester are really really interesting!! I enjoy my EL mods, and even my Soci of Tourism! Well, Stats is also interesting, but seriously.. my arts mods are so interesting, that I not only stay awake in lessons easily, but I also find myself in deep thought about what has been taught. It's really amazing how God also places Himself in my lectures.
At EL3254 Lecture...
"Who can have a complete and unrefracted capture of the world? Well... only I guess only God can."
At EL3204 Lecture...
"Insult-Insult can be an adjacency pair. But what about Insult-Compliment? Then we can all be like Jesus and turn our other cheek to be slapped too."
"Who can have a complete and unrefracted capture of the world? Well... only I guess only God can."
At EL3204 Lecture...
"Insult-Insult can be an adjacency pair. But what about Insult-Compliment? Then we can all be like Jesus and turn our other cheek to be slapped too."
How apt that even in lectures, the sovereign Lord drops in little nuggets of reminders of who He is, and how omnipresent He is. =)
Well, other than that.. a week ago, we had the "Love Our Neighbour" Tribe Service Day, and being honest, it went well. There were a lot of cleaning duties, decoration making sessions and interaction with both the elderly and among ourselves... but I was thankful that the tribe gave a turnout of close to 30 people, and that everyone pitched in. It felt so much like a family again.. I missed that kinda feeling. Glad and many thanks to Adeline who came down, and thanks to Jin Hui, Xiaoyun and Joshua! We make a good team!! =)
My personal takeaways from the cleaning... I realised that if I can muster the courage to speak to elderly who're not close to me (I.E. Complete strangers), then I should be able to spend more time with my own grandmother... Praise be to the Lord... the next Monday, I made time to go down to my Grandmother's house with my mom, when I really wanted to study.. but in doing so, I made an effort to talk to her.. I haven't been there for some time, cause I'm always busy.. but the Lord prompted me to go, and go I did. It was a short time? About 30 mins? BUt it was fruitful and fulfilling all the same.
Trying out a new regime at the moment... run 4 times a week about 3 to 5km each run, and I will do static stations at the end of each run to tone my body for the upcoming IPPT. I wanna maintain my silver, but not to the extent that I get my silver and end up half dead... so I will train.. though it's draining, and can be tiring.. but I will do so. =) Nothing ventured, nothing gained... and well... as what the theme so far has been about.. until we go through fire, we will not be properly moulded. =)
Yesterday, we had a surprise farewell for Xiaoyun at SMU.. Quite a turnout.. XY, Vanessa C., Felicia, Audrey, Alicia, Rachel, Zhen Zhu, Isaac and Wei Liang came down... quite a fun session definitely... we sang, we prayed, we ate, we laughed, we talked... like a family, except when the music ends, so does the curtain be drawn. It ended a bit too soon? But I also know that indeed.. it is a session that was really memorable.
Today I went back to VJC to study.. and reaped unforseen benefits. Not only was i productive for a rekindling of my Saturday studying sessions (1 tutorial and 3 readings), but I managed to talk to Geraldine, WELCO, and the Oreintation Adhoc, specifically Lennart, Subra and Kendrick till about 8pm at night, sharing about Council history, and our Secondary School experiences. It was rather memorable, definitely.
Amazingly, I think because I've been expending too much energy the last few weeks over event after event, I felt surprisingly rested in my studying, and in talking to people. I just... really enjoyed it. I felt God's presence in my studying, and even in the chats... but the run that I did kinda pooped me out... haha.. been runnin 3km, suddenly jump to 4.8km took a bit of a toll... and the static after that... whooo!! Hahaha... high. =)
But then... I forgot that I wanted to do QT with God after my run.. in my exhaustion, i just took my stuff and found a table to study... no wonder I wasn't productive... haha.. God wanted to spend time with me! So I came home, and after dinner, I worshipped the Lord and read 2 chapters off Kim Meeder's "Bridge called Hope". And the Lord spoke to me. He spoke so much to me about certain things I've bene going through, and I just felt so emotional.
One line stood out strongly for me in the book...
"Being loved changes us all"
How true this quote is. When people give you feedback or rebuke you out of love, you're more receptive to change than when someone comes out straight to pinpoint flaws that you have and make it seem like it's your fault that you're like that. Perhaps because I'm a word person, so the choice of words appeal to me... but I guess we all have our little glitches. I'm changing, I can sense it... but for some reason, I don't feel very comfortable with the change...
I guess I need more time for reflecting...
Thanks Panda and Vette-Vette though.. for standing by me...
Thanks Vonne, for tagging about me. =)
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